"Gratitude srpings by remembering who helped you and not whom you helped"

"A man is not finished when he is defeated. He is finished when he quits"

"Others are not against you, they are merely for themselves"

"God gave you the face, but u need to provide the expression"

"True love should be unconditional. Never expect anything back"

"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away." (Difficult to understand, but nice to read ;-))

"With God, even when nothing is happening - something is happening."

"Without GOD I cannot succeed, with him I cannot fail"

"Many times, people just go after what they want their ideal partner to be. And they neglect other qualities the person has. Chasing after what you want is never ending and may not come to a good end. So cherish what you have and appreciate what they are. Accept them as they are. Only then, you can learn and love each other better."

"You will know when you really love someone when you want her to be happy even if their happiness means that you're not a part of it"

"It is not whom you know that is important, but who knows you that is important"

"Value! What is most valuable is not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life"

"Trust! It can take years to build Trust and a few seconds to destroy it"

"Marriage! Do not marry a person that you know you can live with; only marry someone that you cannot live without"

"There are two eternities that can break you down. Yesterday and Tommorrow! One is gone and the other doesnt exist. So live TODAY"

"Beauty! Real beauty is not the one that we have pleasure watching, but the one in front of whom we must close our eyes"

"It only takes a few seconds to hurt people you love, and it can take years to heal"

"Well, this is a story. But one of the very good ones to boost our attitue"
A very good story : ATTITUDE
Jerry is the manager of a restaurant in America. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would always reply, “If I were any better, would be twins!” Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs when he changed jobs, so they could follow him around
from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry
was because of his attitude.

He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was always there, telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, “I don’t get it! No one can be a positive person all of the time. How do
you do it?” Jerry replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two choices today. I can choose to be in a good mood or I
can choose to be in a bad mood. I always choose to be in a good mood.
Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I always choose to learn from it.
Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I always choose the positive side of life.”
“But it’s not always that easy,” I protested.
“Yes, it is,” Jerry said “Life is all about choices. When you cut way all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.
It’s your choice how you live your life.”
Several years later, I heard that Jerry accidentally did something you are never supposed to do in the restaurant business: he left the back door of his restaurant open one morning and was robbed by three
armed men. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the hospital. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.
I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Want to see my scars?” I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had
gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door,” Jerry replied.
“Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or choose to die. I chose to live.”
“Weren’t you scared?” I asked. Jerry continued, “The paramedics were
great. They kept telling me. I was going to be fine. But when they
wheeled me into the Emergency Room and I saw the expressions on the
faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes,
I read ‘He’s a dead man.’ I knew I need to take action.” “What did you do?” I asked. “Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry. “She asked if I was allergic to anything.”
‘Yes,’ I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets!’ Over their laughter, I told them, ‘I am choosing to live. Please operate on me as if I am alive, not dead’.”
Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that EVERY DAY YOU HAVE THE CHOICE TO EITHER ENJOY YOUR LIFE, OR TO HATE IT.
The only thing that is truly yours that no one can control or take from you - is YOUR ATTITUDE, so if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.

"Man proposes, God Disposes"

"A winner is NOT one who NEVER FAILS, but one who NEVER QUITS!"

"In LIFE, remember that you pass this way only once! let's live life to the fullest and give it our extreme best."

"The finest steel gets sent through the hottest furnace"

"If someone loves you, love them back. If someone hurts you, love them back unconditionally...The irony is not that love hurts sometimes, its the fact that the cut of each is felt equally as deep."

"The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything in life...They are just good at making the best of everything that life brings along their way."

"Now and then its is good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy."

"The best way to cheer yourself up is to cheer someone else up"

"The joy of the heart makes the face merry."

"All love is sweet, given or returned, common as light is love, and its familiar voice wearies not ever"

"Laughter is heard farther then weeping"

"There will be a day when laughter comes to the mourners"

"The world is his who enjoys it"

"The really happy man is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour"

"Its never too late to have a happy childhood."

"Love is like heaven, but can hurt like hell"

"If nything can go wrong, it will"

"Observe your enemies, for they first find your faults"

"Everything must have a beginning"

"The heart that loves is always young"

"There is a pinch of mad man in every great man"

"Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal." - Henry Ford.

"Future belongs to those who beleive in the beauty of their dream"

"Never make yourself so busy in making a living that u forget to make a life"

"You see things as they are and ask, Why? I dream things as they never were and ask, Why not?"
~George Bernard Shaw~

Someone told "If I have 10 hours to chop a tree, I would take 8 to sharpen the axe"

"If Today is perfect, what is the need for Tommorrow?"

"Mind is a bad MASTER but a good SLAVE"

"Life is like a piano...what you get out of it depends on how you play it..."

"Dance like no one is watching, Sing like no one is listeining, Love like you will never get hurt, And live like its Heaven on Earth…"

I've learned....That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them."

"I've learned....That love, not time, heals all wounds."

I've learned...That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved."

I've learned....That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular."

"I've learned....That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand."

"I've learned....That when you're in love, it shows"

"Being happy doesn’t mean everything’s perfect, it just means you have decided to see beyond the imperfections…"

"A special person wished me this "May the most you desire be the least you find"

"If you have Love, you dont need to have anything else, and if you dont have it, it doesnt matter much what else you have"

"Friendship is a treasured gift that gives our heart a lift, a blessing we just cannot do without, because friendship is what living is all about."

"Friendship is like a tree, grows strong with each passing day, its value, too, cannot be measured, and only treasured in a unique way."

"Friendship brings along a tiny treasure of wonderful experiences and beautiful memories."

"A friend who is always on time can have a friend who is late, a friend who’s methodical can have a friend who never makes planes, a friend who is serious can have a friend who’s lighthearted, friends don’t have to be alike, they know how to enjoy their difference, this is true friendship."

"One is fortunate if happiness is found in Friendship, and if its found one is fortunate to posses that friendship"

"True Friendship survives time distance and silence. It’s the constant light within our heart and encourages us to be the best we can be."

"Flowers of true friendship never fade. Even in harsh condition, friendship never gives up, it’s a promise made forever. It brings such happiness to the heart and mind and makes every dream come alive."

Another mobile message "Roses, Orchids, Tulips .. All pretty flowers but none compares to the beauty of having a FRIEND like u.."

A mobile msg "God gave you 2 legs 2 walk, 2 hands 2 hold, 2 ears to hear, 2 eyes 2 see. But why did HE give you only 1 HEART? Coz He gave the other 1 to someone 4 u 2 find"

"One of the great high privilege, relief and comfort of Friendship is that, one has to explain nothing."

"The gift of true Friendship is that it takes us by hand and reminds us, we are not alone in the journey of life."

"Friendship… the sharing of little things and big dreams, an emotion full of trust and faith."

"Friendship can show, how beautiful life can be."

"Life is nothing without Friendship, because it’s the only relationship that one has the freedom to be oneself."

One more mobile message "From Monday 2 Sunday, Jan 2 Dec, birth 2 Death, me feeling about u will never change. 2 me u were, n alwayz be a sweet friend.."

One more gud nite msg i received on mobile "Sleep well. Hope you wake up tommorrow wtih lightness in your HEART and with a JOYFUL SPIRIT.. Gud night"

"You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true."

"Winners dont do different things; they do things differently"

"Imagination creates Dreams and Faith turns them into Reality"

Sms bout frenship
"To hear what is unspoken, to see what is unseen, to feel without even touching ..... is the miracle called FRIENDSHIP"

Sms bout words
"5 Greatest words: I dont wanna lose U; 4 Pleasant words: I care for U; 3 sweet words: I miss U; 2 Greatful words: Thank U; 1 important word: U!!!"

Sms bout time
"Time's 2 slow 4 those who wait, 2 swift 4 those who fear, 2 long for those who grieve, but 4 those who love, Time is Eternity"

Miss u msg
"MISSING YOU VERY MUCH, Missing u is only half the story. Hope the other half is u miss me"

Attitude"Keep your face to the sunshine and you will not see the shadows"

"In this world, we have to fight alone"

"We live Temporarily Through What We Take, But We Live Forever Through What We Give"

“Keep laughing! As long as u r laughing, you still have hope”:-)

“Climb every mountain, ford every stream, follow every rainbow till you find your dream – From the song “Climb every mountain””

“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant”

“Talent is god given – Be humble; Fame is man given – Be grateful; Conceit is self given – Be careful”

“When you loose, do not lose the lesson”

“Life is a JOURNEY, not a guided tour”

“The key to everything is patience: You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it”

Holi greetings
"E N J O Y all the Violets, Indigos, Blues, Greens, Yellows, Oranges and Reds of L I F E. Happy Holi"

Frenship
"Valuing friendship is not merely by seeing each other everyday. Whats more important is in our busy lives, we REMEMBER EACH OTHER"

Gud night msg
"G'night .... may you have the sweetest dream tonight... and the angels sing as you sleep tight"

Mobile msg again
"Age appears to be best in some things. Old wood, Best to Burn; Old books, Best to read; Old Wine, Best to Drink; And Old Friends, Like U Best to Keep"

"God helps those who helps themselves"

A special person msged me this ..

God knew that everyone needs Companionship and cheer,
He knew that people need someone Whose thoughts are always near.
He knew that we need someone kind To lend a helping hand,
Someone to gladly take the time To care and understand.
God knew that we all need someone To share each happy day,
And to be a source of courage When troubles come our way
Someone to be true to us Whether near or far apart,
Someone whose love we can always hold And treasure in our hearts...
And that's why God gave us friends!
And That's Why I'm Glad He Gave Me You!!

Mobile MSg
"Friendship is sweet when it is new, it is sweeter when it is true, but u know it is the sweetest when it is with U"

"This is the tommorrow you were worried about yesterday"

"Some chase time, some race along with it, but very few race ahead of it, so stride ahead and you will be a winner all the way"

Mobile msg
"Mohabbat ke bhi kuch andaz hote hai, jaagte aankhon may bhi kuch khwab hote hai, zaroori nahi ki gum may aansu nikle, musqurati aankhon may bhi sailab hote hai"

The most destructive habit ................... Worry
The greatest joy ............................. Giving
The greatest loss ........................ Loss of self-respect
The most satisfying work ................... Helping others
The ugliest personality trait................. Selfishness
The most endangered species ........... Dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource............. Our youth
The greatest "shot in the arm"............ Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome........... Fear
The most effective sleeping pill.............. Peace of mind
The most crippling failure disease............ Excuses
The most powerful force in life.............. Love
The most dangerous pariah .................. A gossiper
The world's most incredible computer ........ The brain
The worst thing to be without ............. Hope
The deadliest weapon ....................... The tongue
The two most power-filled words ........... "I Can"
The greatest asset........................... Faith
The most worthless emotion................... Self-pity
The most beautiful attire.................... SMILE!
The most prized possession................... Self esteem
The most powerful channel of communication. Prayer
The most contagious spirit................... Enthusiasm
The greatest fortune............................ Contentment
The greatest asset............................... Health
The meanest action................................. Revenge
The cheapest trait...................................Miserliness
The most powerful action...................... Charity
The most abnoxious disease................. Arrogance
The lowest of the low............................. Pride
The deepest intoxicator ............................Power
The highest coverer of defects.................Wealth
The most unpredictable...........................Customer
The crown of greatness...........................Forgiveness
The greatest sin....................................Not believing in God.
The most uncertain...................................DEATH.

"Love has its own time, season and reason. You can't ask for it to stay. You can only embrace it when it comes and be glad that for a moment in your Life, it was yours"

"REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON."

"Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to."

"Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened."

"Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful."

"To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world."

"Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile."

"Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean! they don't love you with all they have"

"No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry."

Mobile msg
"A lucky star dropped on earth one night, it asked me what did I want, a MILLION DOLLARS or a TRUE FRIEND, I had to choose a million dollars coz i already have U"

"Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end."

"The only thing that is constant in this world is CHANGE"

Here is a small story ... a nice one ..

“There are 4 candles. The first one said “I am peace! However, nobody can keep me lit. I believe I will go out”. Its flame rapidly dimisnished and goes out completely. The second one says: “I am Faith! Most of all, I am no longer indispensable, so it doesn’t make any sense that I stay lit any longer.” When it finished talking, a breeze softly blew on it putting it out. Sadly the third candle spoke in its turn: “I am Love! I haven’t got the strength to stay lit. People put me aside and don’t understand my importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them.” And waiting no longer it goes out. Suddenly … a child enters the room and sees three candles not burning. “Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit till the end.” Saying this the child begins to cry. Then the fourth candle said: “Don’t be afraid, while I am still burning we can re-light the other candles, I am HOPE!” With shining eyes, the child took the candle of hope and lit the other candles. The flame of HOPE should never go out for you during your whole life.

“The grand essentials of happiness are: Something to do, Something to love and Something to hope for.”

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”

“There are no shortcuts for any place worth going”

Some other encouraging statements ....
“Don’t let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.”

“It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone – but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.”

“It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else .. but its more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.”

“All my life I was afraid that I would never find love… and now that I have found it, I’m afraid that I will lose it.”

“Once you have loved, you will always love. For what’s in your mind may escape but what’s in you heart will remain forever.”

“When two friends fall in love they learn they are meant for each other. When they fall out of love they realize they want to keep each other forever.”

“You came from no where, and in no time got close …, not to me, but to my heart.”

“Never love a love that hurts, never hurt a love that loves”

“I love you not because I need you, But I need you because I love you”

Some messages about love....
“Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why its called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall, you just fall.”

A mobile msg again ..
"Ur touch, Ur feel, d moments v share .. when I look into your eyes, its Heaven I C. these moments v share, I will hold sacred 4 all time"

One more mobile msg ...
"In my life, I learned how... 2 love, 2 smile, 2 b strong, 2 work hard, 2 b honest, 2 b faithful, 2 forgive, But I could not learn how .... 2 stop remembering you."

"If you are not planning; you are planning for disaster"

"Plan your work and work your plan"

"Dont weep for the past, sleep for the present and hope for the future"

The smallest n one of my favs
"It happens"

"Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way."

"Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going."

"Do not dismiss your dreams; to be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose."

"Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give love; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightlyl"

"Do not be afraid to encounter risks. It is by takin chances that we learn how to be brave."

"Do not give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying."

"Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life."

"Do not set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.."

"Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special"

Someone special used to tell me this
"If u Trust someone, Trust completely"

"A job started is half the job done"

A hindi one
"Intezar ka phal meetha hota hai"

Hey i forgot my fav one
"Never Miss an Oppurtunity" ;-)

"As V walk thru our friendship there wud b a time when U wont see me beside U. Dont think I left U alone, I just chose 2 walk behind U so I could hold U if U fall."

"When it hurts to look back, and you are scared to look ahead, You can look beside U and your best friend dats me will be there for you always"

"It must have been a very rainy day when you were born, but it wasn't rain, it was the sky who was crying becoz it lost its most beautiful star and that was U"

"TAKE CARE ... simple words to show u that somehow, somewhere, a FRIEND remembered U"

"Between a million tomorrows and a thousand yesterdays, there is just one Today and I would nt let it pass by withour tellin U this: Thank u 4 being my friend."

"2 live a life I need a heartbeat, 2 have a heartbeat I need a heart, 2 have a heart I need happiness, 2 have happiness I need a friend and for a Friend I need U"

"I passes my MISSES for U to the wind. So, Whenever U feel the wind blowing against U, it seems that Somewhere, Someplace, at that time, its me MISSING U"

"Some Frens r seperated by TIME, Some by DIFFERENCES, Some by DISTANCE, Some by PRIDE,
But no matter how far U r & how busy V may be, U will always be a SPECIAL FRIEND to me."

There are some of the messages I received on my mobile .. I liked them n so i am puttin them here .. "Do your Best and then Sleep in Peace. God is awake"

"Anything U do, give it ur Best"

"Aim High n Soar High"

The first one i would like to put here is
"You do not Love someone coz they they are Beautiful but they seem beautiful coz u Love them"